My opinion

Hai. Selamat malam.

Can i just drop few words here?

1st at all I am going to stress here that I am not perfect. I do lot of messy. Here and there. But I want to learn a lot of thing troughout my life. Along if journey, I will certainly meet the bitter and sweet.

Tapi yang I baru jumpa tadi kat this group kat FB really make me think and feels like it should not be happened. But maybe this is just my opinion. Others might be different. No offence ya.

I joined this group since last year. Just to learn thing on my preparation and so on. My big thanks. I picked some ideas shared there especially on the mini jars and the photographer.

But the pain part is I jadi annoying dgn some members yang suke share someting personal which I think may embarrasing to her good self.

Example, bila share status yang mcm 'xsbar nak kawin utk mghalalkan kasih syg sbb tunang dah sibuk suruh mkn acid folic'. Atoi..actually I rasa mcm tak perlu ja share benda mcm tu. ;) entahla. For me it is too personal. ;) Lagipun kahwin bkn semata2 nak makam acid folic tu & making baby ja. Baaanyak lagi benda lain kena buat awak. ;) Yang tu atas rezeki la kalo Tuhan nak bagi. ;). Still I hope she stop to share such thing. Opss sorry. This is just my personal opinion. Sorry ;)

Another person is initially cerita pasal the issue of money during prep. Sedih & loongg sgt status dia. Cara dia cerita tu mmg obviously tunjuk dia btl2 tga terdesak.according to her, her mom nak tunang dia beli bracelet 3k above. And dia and tunang dia dah short habis dur to others wedding expenses.

So ramai la members lain drop nasihat and kata2 semangat so that she can go through her obtacles. Bukan main panjang lebar lagi supporting comments. At the end this lady rasa malu kot. I saw she reply the comments mentioned that she got money in bank. And even mention the 'belas-belas ribu'. Atoi. So immature. Kalo u dah ada duit byk tu then knp initial status tu mcm terdesak and sedih sgt2. Then siap mention tunang you kerja gaji besar tapi byk komitmen and been treated like ATM. Atoi menyesal pulak i g drop comment awal2 bagi kata semangat bagai. Sekali, macam riak pulak dia ni. Dah nak kahwin mmg la kena sacrifice. Hehe klaka la you ni. I tergelak bace comment u. Xpala maybe dia nak cover rasa malu kot. Tu la lain kalo jangan buka pekung di dada. Ni duk cerita macam tunang and dia senditi mcm xda duit sgt2 nak beli bracelet 3k. I am sure you are smart enough to think right? What should you do? Are you going to let your tunang go for bank's loan just to buy you a 3k bracelet? Furthermore you r getting married and the bracelet is all yours. Haiyah apala nak susah hati sgt kalo dah ada duit belas2 ribu tu kasi ja la tunang pinjam dulu. Huhu. OK that is what I think if only I was at your shoe. Sorry yah. Be matured. Kan nak kahwin dah. Jaga nama bakal suami. Tak baik aibkan dia mcmtu.


Hurm lagi satu. Klaka jugak. She share the status that tunang dia mcm argue dia nak makan acid folic. Tunang dia cakap org dulu2 x mkn folic pun baby ok ja. ;). Then dia pun sedey2 and maybe xboleh nak amik folic sbb tunang disagree. Huhu. 1stly, kalo i jadi dia, I will understand that the one will carry the baby in womb is me. The one who is going to give birth is me. Why need to ask your husband about something which definitely banefit you? Just go for it la bebeh! Unless you both is planning to put some gap before having the baby.
So xpayahla nak tanya org laki byk2. Dah nama pun lelaki. I dont think they are much interested to get to know what should we consume - suppliments. Unless they are doctor la .2ndly, get yout partner some reading. It is ok to share what you are going to consume but be smart yah. Ini pun satu which is i think by posting such status will reflect that your partner is kurang acknowledge. :). Tak baik tau awak aibkan suami. Tapi seb baik dia cuma bakal suami. Nnt jgn la post status mcmtu ok. I am sure you are pretty smart. ;)

Ok I am done membebel. ;) sorry ya. It just my opinion which I have no one to voice to.

Nnt kalo jumpa lagi status mcmtu sula senyum dan geleng2 ja. Huks