Maybe & tapi

I went through the fb and incidentally saw your status updates. Sadly all your status sounds rebelling and you are in deeply in pain for what you having.

I wish can tell you this.

I am maybe cuma tahu cakap because I am not in your shoes, tapi I heard this from the friend of mine. Here my version. (Take a deep breath)

"Apalah sangat sakit and alahan itu semua nak dibandingkan dengan rezeki Allah dah bagi kamu.

Kamu mungkin rasa kamu susah sebab berjauhan dengan suami dalam keadaan kamu mengandung. Kamu mungkin rasa sedih sebab kamu kena lalui sorang2 semuanya.

Kamu mungkin rasa sedih bila membandingkan diri kamu dengan orang lain yang mungkin nampak lebih bahagia, no pain no hardness at all.

Tapi kamu tahu tak kamu bertuah sebab Allah dah pilih rahim kamu untuk amanahNya. Ramai lagi orang yang nak tapi belum Allah rezekikan.

Tak faham kenapa kamu mesti merungut di facebook almost everyday to voice out how suffer you are with various kinda of alahan and sakit-sakit. Kamu seakan2 rebel dengan limit yang kamu ada as a mom to be.

Kenapa kamu pilih facebook untuk mengadu. And I can see your caring friend been trying so hard to keep you calm but your answer almost the same and sounds like "you are not in my shoe" "dah tak tahan" "kamu tak kena so kamu xrasa" and the most melampau bila kamu cakap "mati lagi bagus". Frankly, the last word tu yang make me create this entry.

Wahai hamba Allah, I am maybe no one to you. So I dont really care what happen to you. I just pray all your pain gone and at least you are willing to endure with it. I wish you be thankful and look for Him for the help, not the facebook.

It is true nobody will understand you but Allah will.

Seriously be thankful young lady. You own what the other wife wants"